Middle-aged Escape: Breaking Away from the Bottom

What do unemployed people like to do?

There is a joke that says:

The end of men's employment is Didi drivers, express delivery, and security guards, while the end of women's employment is cleaning and nannies.

There are many undergraduates and master's students, and many of them were former bosses and executives.

It can be seen that the ecological environment of the underlying industry is harsh, and the competition is the most cruel, direct, and bottomless.

They are all risking their lives to make money, and they are fighting for their energy and physical strength.

Why is it harder for middle-aged people?

Because the young man has enough physical strength and time, he can really afford to lose. Because he is still young, one person can eat enough and the whole family will not be hungry.

Not so for middle-aged people, who really can’t afford to lose.

My physical strength began to decline, but I didn't dare to get sick, I didn't dare to lose my job suddenly, and I didn't dare to spend money lavishly. I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to educate my children well, and I was afraid that my family members would be unwell.

I drag my tired body every day, bite the bullet, and work hard to make money. Even if the income is meager, it can relieve the pressure of life to some extent.

Professor Zeng Shiqiang once said: "Middle age is an age that cannot afford to lose. Every step is like walking on thin ice. Not only are you afraid of slipping under your feet, but you are also afraid of stepping on the thunder laid by fate."

Once a middle-aged person fails, he will be extremely poor and have no way out. Some people say that the road to success is not crowded, which means that he has already climbed out of the bottom.

The question is, how do people in middle age escape from the painful cycle of reincarnation at the bottom?

There is only one way, which is to act in the completely opposite way to the people at the bottom.

for example:

Those at the bottom like to pursue recognition from those around them, so you have to remain unknown and constantly improve yourself.

Those at the bottom are always embarrassed to refuse others, so you have to dare to say no. The bottom is an abyss. The better your impression in their minds, the deeper you sink into it.

In short, don’t let the bottom take the lead.

The fundamental reason for breaking away from the bottom is nothing else but thinking.

To free yourself from the bottom is the greatest awakening for every middle-aged person. The best way to change your life is to think.

Learn to protect your time and energy.

Don't waste a minute or a second on useless people, a minute or a second on useless things, or a minute or a second on worthless cognitions, because they are all internal consumption of you#sol #DOGE #WIF #BTC #SHIB

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